Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Update on the Crew...

It's been WAY TOO LONG for a kiddos update!!! I'd list all of the reasons, but that would be long and boring...LOL!! Here goes...

Madison...
Wow...you are going into 6th grade next year. You are so big and I'm having a hard time admitting that to myself!! You are so funny! This is not a trait that I saw coming. You have always been kind, compassionate and loving, but funny is a new one. You really find humor in just about everything and you are very fun loving! I think you get a lot of that from your dad!! You are also becoming so mature. You still have issues with your little sister. I guess sibling rivalry will probably last until you're both grown and have kids of your own! You do love each other and, in fact, when you went to Disney World with Nani this year I think Abby went into a bit of a depression!! She cried for you a couple times and talked about you incessantly!
I have to be honest that this age is really hard for me! You are getting older and are a bit more reserved with your thoughts and feelings! You do share things with me, but I have to ask and be available! I pray that I will always be the one you know you can come to with anything!!
Funny story that you probably won't appreciate me sharing until your much older, but I have to anyway. I had a talk with you recently about starting your period. I told you after that talk that you could never embarrass me with any question! I told you that you could ask me ANYTHING and I would talk with you about it and that no question was off limits. I wanted you to ask me anything that you were thinking about. So, that night after I prayed with you and your sister you said you had a question to ask me in the morning. Figuring it was too private to ask in front of your sister I said okay and my mind raced all night, preparing answers to all sorts of things I thought it could be. The next morning you said, "Can I ask my question." Thump, thump, thump went my heart. I said sure and you asked me, "How come other Gods in the bible had names, why didn't God have another name." ...........................................silence and then a small sigh of relief as I realized just what kinds of things were important to you!!! You are awesome!!! You still have no interest in boys, gossip and famous people/musicians. You don't care about clothes or how you look, you are the most laid back person I know. You do however really want to figure out the bigger things of this world! God is preparing you for great things!! I am sooo proud!!! I love you angel!






Abby...
The summer before 1st grade. You've lost four teeth (the top two within a week and a half of each other) and look sooo super cute! You are all things fashion. You have really begun to understand how to pick out things that match and you love to accessorize. You also decided you needed a new hairstyle so you preceded to cut your bangs on a diagonal...ooops! What can I say, you know what you want and you go for it! You are a perfect mixture of spitfire and joyful/loving heart. You make pictures/art for everyone we see/visit whether you know them or not. If you know we are going to someone's home, you always prepare by making your picture and usually writing "I love you" on it...and you mean it! You love life, so much so that you get yourself in trouble often! You really do want to be able to control yourself better, but you have such a sense of adventure you often just can't help yourself. You have gone to bed before your brother and sister most nights this summer as a consequence and you truly hate that...you just don't remember you're going to hate it so much when you're misbehaving! Oh, how I love your spunk! We had a long talk last night about how God gave you that spunk and it was important to use it for Him and less for your own enjoyment. You are endearing to everyone you meet. You are also Sam's BIGGEST fan. You love him dearly and will do just about anything to make him laugh. You love him so much so that we've had to make a rule that you can't pick him up and carry him around without permission. You forget that one a lot too!! I love you precious girl!!






Max...
My little comedian! You are almost always happy...well, that is unless you're hungry or sleepy. You are very agreeable and easy going. You love Sam almost all the time, but one time when we were heading home and Sam was exhausted and hungry and was crying very loudly in his car seat, you said, "I want to take that baby back." You didn't really mean it though...LOL. The next day you were loving on him as usual and telling us how much you love Sam! You are still a lover of all things trains and we even got to take you on a vintage train ride out of the stockyards this summer. You loved every second! We just had our first Max and Mommy date night a couple nights ago. We went and got frozen yogurt and you got to pick three toppings (one more than usual) then we headed to Target so you could pick out a small toy...guess what you picked? A train of course! We've also spent lots of time at Hawaiian Falls this summer. It is great because you are exactly tall enough to ride the big rides and you love them! You were a bit pensive at first, but once you experiences them you were sold! It makes me realize you aren't so much my little baby boy anymore. My heart aches as I realize I will be sending you off to Kindergarten this year. I will so miss our Mommy and Max days and I am very jealous of the Kindergarten teacher who will be so blessed to have you in her class! You are the cutest, sweetest, most lovable little boy around!! I wish I could bottle up your adorable four-year-oldness forever, but I know that God has great plans for you too!! I love you Maxaroni!!






Sam...
Wow...have you only been home for five months? It feels like you've been a part of our lives since day 1. You have fit seamlessly into our family and I am so grateful! You are a very happy and easy baby. You sleep just about any time we put you in the crib and usually we have to check on you to see if you're awake because you won't cry for us to come and get you. This breaks my heart a little as I think this is because a crib was your home in the orphanage for several months. We are still working a bit on your attachment to us. I know you are attaching because you don't always go easily to strangers. You sometimes cling tightly to me. But you really don't like to make eye contact to whomever is holding you. We're working on this with lots of holding and games like peek-a-boo. Sometimes you cry because it makes you so uncomfortable to have that kind of intimacy, but we love you enough to retrain those thoughts in your head to know that it's safe and okay to love and be loved! We're getting there! You certainly are loved beyond measure by everyone in our family and our friends too! You just had your first birthday and were surrounded by so many people who prayed you home! How blessed our we!
You are pulling up and standing while holding on and you now traditional crawl as much as you army crawl You love to play with your toys and copy things we do like put a toy inside another toy, clap and nod. You say lots of things like mamamama, dadadadada, but the only word that I think you actually associate with it's object is doggy, well, when you say it it's more like da-eeee. You are almost done with formula and finally have lost your gag reflex and can handle some solids. We also had to put you on TB medicine as you had a positive skin test. 9 months of medication is no fun, but much better to be cautious! I love you precious Yacob!



Sunday, July 18, 2010

And He's Already One...

I am grateful we got to celebrate Sam's 1st birthday! Every day I am reminded of the amazing gift he is and how blessed we are to have him. As always, a BIG piece of my heart aches for his birth mom. I can only imagine what she must be feeling, thinking, wondering about her precious baby boy! I grieve with her and pray that she can somehow know in her heart that he is safe, healthy, cared for and loved. She is never far from my mind!

On to happier things...

We celebrated Samuel Yacob's first birthday with a safari themed swim party! We were rained out for the original party date, but quickly rescheduled and it worked out great!!

To my precious son! I am honored that God chose me to be your mom and to love and care for you. You have brought an abundance of love and laughter to our family. You are truly a gift and a blessing and I can't wait to see the further fulfillment of God's awesome plan for your life! I love you more than words can say!!

** pictures from the party totally and completely out of order because I'm too lazy to rearrange them! :)


his first cheeto...

delicious cookies made by my amazing and generous friend Candy.
And, after I recounted the guestlist and had a minor panic attack another amazingly generous friend made more! :)

* cupcakes decorated by myself and my very talented and patient friends...Jenny, Tasha, Amber and Heather!


* jungle mix = peanuts for the elephants, cheetos for the cheetas and banana chips for the monkies...


he really wanted NOTHING to do with that monkey cupcake! I think the eyes kinda freeked him out. I mean food shouldn't have eyes...right?

These two have been best friends since they were one and still love to be around each other! Awesome!

The safari themed napkins...


* I think it's love at first sight...

* a gaggle of giggly girls...


* that's one handsome little dude!

* the handsome boys are everywhere at this party!

*chillaxin'

* my precious, precious "B"...I am hearing her sweet giggle as I look at this picture!

* Big sister LOVES and cares for her little sister and brother who are from Ethiopia as well!
















* the Ethiopian beauties


















Thursday, June 24, 2010

Day 10...Africa (Our Journey Home)

AKA, the day that never ends! :)

Saturday, February 20th, would be our last day in Ethiopia and it would be a LONG one!

We were up for our normal breakfast. I sure would miss the awesome pancake and omelet breakfast we were spoiled with every day! After breakfast we went out for a final round of shopping at the shopping area they call "The Post Office". We had a goal to get a gift for each of Sam's 18 birthdays and his wedding. We didn't get it all, but were able to get most of it. Just another reason to go back!! After shopping we went to metro pizza for lunch (we had been told to go and we weren't disappointed) and a macchiato from the coffee shop next door. Yum! After we got home it was time to finish packing. It sure went faster than the original packing that took me about a month, but was still no easy task! After we were packed and ready to go we had time for a dinner before heading to the airport. Matt, Madison and I went to the Zebra grill and left Nani with Yacob to babysit. Along the way we stopped at a couple silver shops and bought the girls each a silver cross necklace to someday celebrate their baptism.

A few images from the roof of our guest house...











We were so happy to be traveling home with the Wells, for at least the first leg of our trip! We loaded up the vans (I think at this point it was maybe nine o'clock at night) and headed to the airport. Our guide "T" and driver David, whom we had grown to love, couldn't go even across the street to the airport with us and we had to say our goodbyes in the parking lot! It was extremely stressful being on our own and going through security twice and dealing with the pushy and unfair airport people. After about two hours later we were finally on our way home. Our flight left around midnight and we had about 20 hours of travel left ahead of us. The first flight was pretty cramped but we were grateful that Yacob slept most of that flight to Khartoum where our plane landed for about an hour. Then it was off to Amsterdam. I can't remember for sure, but I think this was about a 10 hour flight. I probably slept off and on for about 2-3 of those hours. Yacob was doing well, with minimal fussing! When we got off the flight Paw Paw and Mamaw were waiting to meet Yacob.





After a quick in airport breakfast we made the trek across the airport to catch our flight on to DFW. I purchased a couple water bottles for the flight and realized they costs me $10 when it was too late. Going through the line to get on the plane the costly bottles were confiscated, Yacob peed through his outfit and in the process of boarding Matt and I got separated and he had the diaper bag with the change of clothes etc. By the time I found our seats and we got situated it was too late to change Yacob's diaper/clothes so I got to take off with a soaked baby strapped to me. And, during take-off Matt said while he was boarding the plane two security guards were escorting a man off the plane. That was a fun plane change...let me tell ya! :) But we got situated and the sweet, sweet stewardesses moved Matt and I from our cramped seats to a center row of three seats at the back of the plane...PERFECT!!! The final leg of our journey had begun! Yacob did a great job with lots of sleeping and minimal fussing! We were getting oh-so-tired, but knowing we were so close to introducing Yacob to our family and friends was exciting!

When we landed we had to go through customs at the airport. I was a little anxious because I knew lots of friends and family (probably 40-50 people) were waiting for us) but once we got through all of that and got our luggage and headed through the doors the cheers of so many people that we loved dearly melted away all the anxiety from the trip! What a welcome home. I am still so completely humbled at all of the people there to celebrate Yacob coming home. Each of the people had supported us in this journey in so many ways and were a huge part of bringing him home and I will never forget!!!




* this little guys was SOOOO relieved to see his daddy again...the feeling was mutual!

My best friend from high school surprised me with a trip all the way from Austin. Well, actually I think she was at a family reunion maybe even farther away and drove straight there to see him and followed us home, helped us settle in and picked up dinner! I think she has loved Yacob from before we even had a picture!!! How did I ever deserve such a friend???

When we got home Abby didn't want to leave Yacob's side. Actually all she wanted to do was hold him and love him. She has always loved babies, but I had no idea that she truly felt like he would be her baby. We are still having to set boundaries for how much she can hold him...LOL! I was amazed at how well Yacob did at the airport with all of the people holding him and all of the noise, but he did amazing. I just knew we were due for a breakdown so when he began to fuss and Abby begged to hold him I thought it would last about a minute. Well, she climbed on the bed, turned him backwards on her tummy so he was facing out and could see, and began to rub his cheek and quietly sing to him. It was the most precious thing ever! And, wouldn't you know it, Yacob was asleep within a minute or two! She was so proud...such a GOD moment!!!





As I ponder my parting words, I feel a sadness that it's over! A big part of my heart is still there and always will be! I hope and pray that God brings us back in some capacity...still not exactly sure His plan there, but can't wait to find out! I do know that both Matt and I love the people and feel the pull!!! This was an amazing blessing and we are so grateful that God allowed us to be a part!!

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Day 9...Africa

Once Yacob fell asleep, he was out for the night...Yay!! I slept much better. So grateful my throat pain was much more bearable! We were up at our usual 8:45 for 9:30 breakfast. It was a low key morning with some packing and visiting. I did have a minor breakdown though. I hadn't gotten to Skype or call my kids hardly at all because the connection was not working well and because of the time zone. But, I remembered it would just be a couple more days until I would have them in my arms.

It's funny, when I read the journal entry for this day I didn't have anything written down about the coffee factory tour. I must have been so tired that night that I forgot to journal it. I do remember that it was a really neat tour!! Coffee originates from Ethiopia. Soooo cool!! They can make a mean macchiato (sp?) too!!! It was really neat seeing all of the beautiful Ethiopian women hand sorting the coffee beans. What patience!! And, the aroma...Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!























We got Yacob's visa and said goodbye to about half of the families who headed out that afternoon for the airport.

Later that afternoon the Johnsons picked us up for dinner to celebrate Tracey and Andrea's birthday at a restaurant called "The Family Restaurant". We even stopped at a real grocery store on the way.
Crazy enough, the restaurant was Tex_Mex food. I even got a real, yummilicious margarita! We ended the evening with Mezeret's homemade chocolate birthday cake! It was DELICIOUS!!
We got to take a few pictures and say our thank yous and goodbyes to the Johnsons.







This night Yacob fell asleep easily! I took some great advice from one of the mom's and gave him the last bit of his bottle in the bed. He was out for another "all nighter" of sleep, that is! :)